Women Are Materialistic

I’m sittin in 5th period right now with nothing better to do, and i realized i haven’t posted in a while so I thought I’d talk about women. Yeah, you, ladies. I swear if I wasn’t straighter than an architects line I’d be done with ya. I recently had an “epiphany” if you will, and realized something: Women aren’t attracted to men, really, the physical appearance of a guy is basicaly unimportant unless the guy is extremely ugly, or extremely good looking. what women like are things like who the guy’s friends are, how he dresses, what sort of exciting or fun things the guy does, so an and so forth. How much he smiles, how connected he is, i could go on and on for days.

Now me being a guy, I tend to fall in love with more physical things, and I don’t mean butts and boobs, I mean the way a girl smiles at you, the way she laughs, the way her hands feel when you touch them, the way she walks, how her eyes light up when she sees you or you say something that makes her happy, a million little things. Oh, and butts and boobs haha… And yes a huge part of my attraction is based on who the girl is on the inside, but it’s the physical things that sort of provide a solid foundation and building material that forms into a solid structure of deep emotion and caring.

I’m not blind as to what’s considered good looking, and to the standards currently laid out as to what’s considered “hot”, I’m a pretty good lookin’ guy. I don’t think I’m ALL THAT or anything, just from hearing countless girls say the same things over and over I’d think it’s fair to assume that I have nice eyes, a good lookin body, nice smile, and an awesome personality. Notice in there I didn’t hear ANY girl say, “you’re friends with Chris, you wear Abercrombie, you’re a lifeguard, and you can get me into the Idaho Center for free.” But, like I said in the first paragraph, in my opinion, it’s what mostly makes a guy dateable, if I was very average looking the girl would bring up my clothes, my friends, my occupation, blah blah blah… which further iiterates my point that unless you’re good looking or ugly, looks don’t matter.

We have a word for guys who do that kinda stuff: Douchebags. And I think you know what I’m talking about. The guys that date women generations older than them just because they’re rich, or famous, or connected or whatever else. My brother’s 22 and he dated a 45 year old for a while, yeah, I know it’s gross. He did it because she was rich. She bought him clothes, jewelry, watches, plasma screen TV’s, and as soon as she bought him a brand new car, he dumped her like she was never anything to him. Those of you reading this are probably looking on this in terror as to how cold and heartless my brother seems, but you ladies know that most of you do it too, if a guy didn’t have anything going for him, you wouldn’t stay with him just because you love the way the guy looks at you, or because he has a nice smile. You’d dump him cuz he’s a loser. And of course there are good people of both genders, some women who love a guy for exactly what he is and nothing more, and men who love women for the same reasons. Couples like that are the ones that end up being married for 60 years, and dying with each other, love, a facet of their everyday lives.

So I don’t think women should look at JUST the material things about a guy, I think people should just see people for the kind of people they are, nothing more, nothing less. Of course, it’s alot easier said than done, and I doubt anything’s ever going to change, because let’s face it: Women are better looking than men. Women probably need a little more than just looks to put the idea of sleeping with a man in their head, but as a man, I wouldn’t know. I’m just stating what I see as a man who can only see things from a mans point of view having never been a woman.

How Could You Call That a Friendship?

People talk shit. That’s a fact: Britney Spears is crazy, Johnny Depp’s a queer, David Beckham’s ugly (that one’s for you Kari ). But out of all the people who talk shit about everyone else, shouldn’t your friends be some of the ones who don’t talk crap about YOU? Recently, I got in a fight with one of my best friends (he was at least, not anymore.) and decided that being friends with him isn’t worth my time or effort. Constant arguing, pissing contests, and his constant shit talking. I don’t know about you, but that’s not a friendship to me. Your friends are supposed to be some of the closest people in your life, you shouldn’t have to worry about saying the wrong thing, or them talking a bunch of shit!

Take for example, me and my BEST friend Brydon, I can’t remember a single time when I’ve ever talked shit about him! If I ever had a problem with him, I’d go up and talk to him about it, and he does the same with me: No shit-talking. That, my friends, is TRUE friendship. If any of you reading this has friends that do that to you, consider the validity of your friendship.

“A friend is a lover, literally. The relationship between Latin amīcus “friend” and amō “I love” is clear, as is the relationship between Greek philos “friend” and phileō “I love.” In English, though, we have to go back a millennium before we see the verb related to friend. At that time, frēond, the Old English word for “friend,” was simply the present participle of the verb frēon, “to love.” The Germanic root behind this verb is *frī-, which meant “to like, love, be friendly to.” Closely linked to these concepts is that of “peace,” and in fact Germanic made a noun from this root, *frithu-, meaning exactly that. Ultimately descended from this noun are the personal names Frederick, “peaceful ruler,” and Siegfried, “victory peace.” The root also shows up in the name of the Germanic deity Frigg, the goddess of love, who lives on today in the word Friday, “day of Frigg,” from an ancient translation of Latin Veneris diēs, “day of Venus.”

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/friend

It’s not just about the looks…

People today are obsessed with physical attraction, and I’m no exception. Even if a girl I knew was the coolest girl I’ve ever met, if she was fat or had a moustache or anything like that, about as far as I’d go is a friendship. And although important as it is to be attracted to someone, the real attraction is what’s inside of them. If i were to date the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and found out that she was a horrible person, you could bet that she’d be getting uglier and uglier to me. On the other hand, if I were to be with a girl who was pretty cute, you know… not the best lookin either, but had an AMAZING personality I’d be a lot less reluctant to be with that girl for a long time.

It has been said that to actually fall in love with someone is to intimately appreciate their morals, standards, and ethics, and I couldn’t agree more. Sure, there are things that promote the initial attraction, like being hot, or having a nice ass, but what makes couples stay together for their entire lives is because who those people are on the inside. So after your butt gets wrinkly and saggy, or you get a hunchback, who you are on the inside is what keeps the love going.

I’ve only heard about it, never actually experienced it. It’s especially hard for me to find a girl that I’d like to be with for more than a few weeks, you could say I’m really picky, you could say I’m an asshole, you could say whatever you want but I’ve just never really met a girl who I could see myself being with for a long time, My longest relationship? 8 months, pretty good, but not great. second longest? 5 months, still not bad for me. Third longest? 3 weeks. Ya, i know.

I’m looking for someone who can challenge me, who I can talk to for hours and hours about nothing, or everything. Someone who becomes more perfect and amazing to me with every day we’re together. I’ve dated over 60 girls I’d say, and not one of them has lived up to what I’m looking for, some are too passive, some too aggressive, some are just downright bitches, some are too sexual (not like that’s a bad thing haha it’s just not all the relationship should be about.), some are too prude.

I’m not trying to make this sound like a newspaper ad for a single looking for someone, the moral of my story is that finding the person who can challenge you, who can talk to you for hours about nothing, or everything, who becomes more perfect and amazing to you with everyday you’re together is EXTREMELY hard to come by, so when you find that special someone, HANG ONTO THEM FOR GODSAKES!

WoW is a WASTE of time.

For those of you who don’t know what World of Warcraft is just imagine every nerds fantasy: Swords, magic, quests, guilds, alignments, and naked dancing elves. No doubt most people have heard about it, since all the kids in my tech academy seem to talk about it non-stop, but I’m here to say that wasting your time on WoW is RIDICULOUS.  Let me re-phrase that, wasting EXCESSIVE amounts of time on WoW is ridiculous. Take, for example, one of my best friends Adam Keener. That kid spent so much time on his computer playing WoW (He got a girlfriend (Thank God, FINALLY!) so he’s not on as much as he used to be…) that it cut into his, eating, sleeping, and social time! I called him once and said, “Hey dude, I don’t have anything going on today do you wanna hang out?” You know what he said? “Sorry dude, I have to get my paladin to level 40 by Thursday or I can’t join the Raid!” I almost punched him in the face through the phone! We hardly got to hang as it was because his mom didn’t approve of me having a tattoo, so he wants to spend the time that we actually COULD hang, on his retard blood-elf. 

Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying don’t play it, although i played it before and hated it, I’m just saying there’s no need to let it consume your life. We get to be teenagers one time in our lives, and you wanna spend 30-40 hours a week at a computer?! It’s a waste, when you could be out jumping the trustles, or hanging out with friends. Going to concerts, or learning an instrument. ANYTHING!!! I play video games too, I was at my friend Daniel’s house til six in the morning playing Gears of War (btw I’m PSYCHED for Gears 2!), but I don’t play everyday and it was a game where you could actually chill with friends, and raiding with your friends doesn’t count!

So before you lose your life in WoW, just remember there are plenty of better things you could get caught in, LIKE LIVING!!!!

I’m Right and You Know It.

I like to think of myself as an individual on a higher plane of thinking than the average mind, which is why I believe that the things I like are great, and the things I hate are stupid, and anyone who doesn’t agree is wrong.  Take for example, blogs.  I hate blogs!  Not all of them, mind you, but the ones where someone thinks that people actually want to hear about their day and listen to their incessant jabbering about how nobody at work likes them, or how they need to lose five pounds.

Newsflash: Nobody Cares.

Another type i can’t stand is where people like to post their emo-bullcrap poetry, it’s not good and i doubt anyone reads it so there’s no point in even wasting cyber space with it.

 In fact i basically hate poetry altogether. Sure i can enjoy a funny limerick every now and then, but is poetry really that difficult? Take, for example, the haiku:

autumn twists the sun
burning clouds over rooftops
ever-changing mind

See? I spewed that out of my mind in like, ten seconds. Now give me $25 million for writing it and I’ll produce a whole book full of crappy poems.

There once was a man with a fiddle,
who came up with an incessant riddle,
day by night, night by day,
I couldn’t care less either way!

OH-EM-GEE that was so hard. Actually, when we have to write poems in class, it’s the easiest way to get an A ever. So being a famous poet, and actually having others respect that, is malarky.

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Gangsters are dumb. You’re fighting over a color, who cares. At least that’s how it is here in good’ol Nampa. Two groups fighting because one likes red and the other fighting because they like blue, it’s like they’re three year olds with guns.

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I hate it how black comedians can make fun of white people and we’re okay with it, but if a white comedian makes fun of black people, all of a sudden he’s a racist and an A-hole. We take alot of black people’s crap over something that happened two-hundred years ago. Forgive and Forget already… It’s also stupid how alot of black people and mexican people insult white people, I accidentally bumped into a mexican girl the other day and she turns and says to me, “Watch where you’re going, stupid white boy.” If she had bumped into me and I said, “Watch where you’re going, stupid mexican girl,” I’d have 30 mexicans on top of me beatin’ the living crap outta me. If we define people by their race, and give certain priveliges to one and not another, then the world becomes a place full of contempt for everybody else. No wonder the majority of people stick with their own kind!

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Men who hit women are retarded. Enough said. If you’re that much of a coward that you have to take your anger and aggression out on a woman (probably one who cares about you, since i can’t see a guy going up to a random lady, and breaking her jaw.), then you deserve to have the crap beat out of you, maybe worse. Sure, there are exceptions of course, like a karate tournament, or say, a serial killer lady coming after you with a knife, but when Cletus smacks around LuEllen because his honky-tonk Ford truck broke down, then that’s where I draw the line.

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I hate it when people assume I listen to a certain kind of music, just from the clothes I wear. I’ll admit I’m a prep, and everyone that looks through my iPod expects to see a bunch of Rap music on there for some reason. I have little to none of it. Rap is GAY. I do, however, have A LOT of hardcore music. ohhhhhh yyyyeeeeeaaaaaahhhh. My favorite. People are shocked by this too, “‘Cannibal Corpse’? But you’re not a goth, you wear Abercrombie. Shouldn’t you be listening to 50-Cent?” Oh my god, give me a break! Do you know what kind of music plays in Abercrombie and Hollister? A lot of Rock. Everybody listens to different kinds of music, and not everyones taste is reflected by their clothes.

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And that’s about all I want to say. If you have anything to add then feel free, if you disagree with anything, you’re wrong, but you can still say your piece. Whatever gets me a better grade haha…